Who is the most important person in your life?
When you ask someone who is the most important person in their life, you get the answer like ‘’my friends’’, ‘’my family’’ or etc. In both cases this is wrong. The most important person in your life is you! Your life, your happiness, your feelings and your progress are the most important things to you. You can love and care about other people, this is normal, but they cannot be more important than you. In fact, they shouldn’t be more important than you.
Your parents love you very much, but does this mean that you should love them more than yourself? Of course not. When someone tells you that you should be thankful to your parents forever, tell him ‘’you are wrong’’. You didn’t ask from your parents to be born, so you don’t owe them nothing. They are important, but they cannot be important as your own life.
Maybe is sound selfish. You should take care and make happy other people, but you cannot place them in the first place. Because you are there. If you don’t make you happy, and you don’t try to have progress in life, nobody else will do this for you. Because of this, we can say that we are alone. Yes, we have friends and family, but we also have our life. You can get help once or twice, but at the end, you are alone. Now, you understand why you must appreciate yourself more than others. Only then you can expect success, respect and of course, happiness. Remember that this is normal, it isn’t selfish.