Be the person you like
It takes great deal to live the life we like. This society does not like when one tend to live his life. You tend to outcast him or her. He or she will be treated as someone who is having a deadly disease. In the matter fact those were the peoples without any disease. It is not simple to live like someone. You can be taken as exemplary but cannot be imitated. If the character is imitated it will be like living a life with a mask on face.
To live and show who you truly are one should shed some of his anger. Because when the society doesn’t accepts your effort you tend to get anger and lose your temper and lose your identity. Living as oneself is like creating an identity in a very vast community. It can be achieved only by small to large. So the life one likes cannot be achieved in over a night, it takes time to perfect it. For example if a person tends to become vegetarian in the community of non vegetarians the first thing will be he stands for not to slaughter the animals. But that cannot be done or should not be done. It is like forcing your idea into others.
Instead you can start forming small groups to try vegetarian along with your daily food habit. This will lessen the number of animals slaughtered. This is how one can mingle with the society with the life he likes. It is not bad to live the life we like it is bad to force others to live that life to. It is when the clash happens when forces his liking on another.