Don’t blame others
Maybe you really believe that when you blame others that this is their fault. Actually, it is your mistake. You are responsible for your success and your life, but you are also responsible for your mistakes and your failures. So, you cannot blame others. If you use this rule or advice, you will be a better person. People like men and women who can accept the fault. People who are never guilty are treated as bad people.
You may believe that this isn’t a common thing, but almost all people do this. It is much simpler to blame someone else than to admit that you are responsible for something that happened. This also may depend on a country. People from some countries never admit that they made a mistake. They are always right and they are always proud. Well, they think this. In fact, those people are bad husbands and even worse fathers.
The point it to be the person you are. You must be responsible for your actions. Maybe sometimes they are bad and sometimes they are good, but they are yours and only yours. Beside you will be a better person and people will appreciate you more, you will be a stronger person. Maybe it sounds funny, but when you are exposed to bad things, they can make you stronger. This is important for you and your family. Strong people can handle stressful situations much better. They can see light in darkness and they can help others. All of these come from a fact that you must take the responsibility of your mistakes. If your kid also blame others, explain to him why this is important.