When one door closes another one opens
When we experience some fail or some defeat, we spend too much time thinking about it and what we could do in order to fix that. This is a bad thing. When one door closed, another opens, so we have a new opportunity and we can do something other. There is no point of looking at something that we lost. Maybe you don’t like defeat. It is normal. Nobody likes it, but it is a big part of our life.
Without defeat our life would be perfect. We would fulfill our dreams and our desires at the age 20, and what then? It isn’t normal and it isn’t interesting. After all, we want our like to be interesting.
New opportunities are more important than previous, because they are available in the present. The past is irrelevant. Things you did or lost stayed in the past, so they don’t have anything with your current life. The main problem is because we don’t see those new opportunities (open door). We look at our defeat and ask yourself how we can change this. You can’t! You cannot change something that already happened, but you can do many things in order to do something for your future.
Next time when you are defeated, don’t think about how to fix it. Think about how to be better and do something more. This is a secret of each and successful people. They don’t waste time looking at the closed door, they open another door. A good thing is that you can do this as well.